The Knot recently released their 2025 Real Weddings Study, along with the latest insights into average wedding costs across the U.S. These figures offer a valuable glimpse into how couples planned and spent in 2024, but without proper context, they can create stress or unrealistic expectations. At The Budget Savvy Bride, our mission is to empower couples to make informed, intentional decisions—so let’s unpack the data and highlight what it actually means for your wedding planning journey.
The National Average Wedding Cost Is $33,000
According to both The Knot 2025 Real Weddings Study and The Knot Budget Advisor, the average wedding cost in the U.S. is now $33,000, with an average cost per guest of $284 (The Knot). While helpful as a benchmark, this number is not a recommendation or a required minimum—it’s simply a reflection of data collected from a wide range of weddings.
Weddings with 50 guests or fewer averaged $15,000, while weddings with more than 100 guests averaged $42,000. That’s a massive range, proving that your guest list is one of the biggest budget influencers.
Regional Differences Matter—A Lot
The average wedding cost varies significantly by state and city:
- New Jersey: $54,400
- New York, NY: $87,700
- Los Angeles, CA: $44,740
- Chicago, IL: $54,190
- Midwest: $29,000 average
- New England: $43,000 average
These numbers demonstrate why couples should always use local benchmarks—not national averages—to set expectations. Tools like The Knot Budget Advisor help couples understand what’s typical in their area.
Venue and Catering: The Biggest Expenses
- Average venue cost: $12,200
- Average catering cost per person: $80
These two categories alone can make up nearly half of a couple’s total budget. Choosing an off-peak date, a non-traditional venue, or a more flexible caterer can provide major savings.
Couples Are Hiring 14 Vendors on Average
With so many moving parts, vendor selection becomes a strategic decision. Here’s a snapshot of average vendor costs:
- Photographer: $2,900
- Wedding planner: $2,100
- Florist: $2,700
- DJ: $1,700 / Live Band: $4,500
- Dress: $2,100
- Videographer: $2,300
- Hair/Makeup: ~$150 each
- Alcohol: $2,800
Your guest list affects some of these (like catering and bar), but not all (like your photographer). Be strategic about where you scale and where you invest.
Engagement Ring Costs Are Trending Downward
The average engagement ring now costs $5,200, thanks in part to the rise of lab-grown diamonds. Over half of couples opted for lab-grown stones in 2024, which offer savings of roughly $2,700 over mined stones on average.
Who’s Paying Affects the Budget
How couples fund their weddings significantly impacts their spending:
- Couple pays for all: $24,000 average
- Couple pays for majority: $29,000 average
- Couple pays for minority: $38,000 average
This data quietly reveals an uncomfortable truth: access to family financial support—or generational wealth—plays a huge role in shaping what’s possible. It’s not just about taste or effort; it’s about financial privilege. Couples funding their own weddings are often more mindful of spending, out of necessity.
We believe it’s important to acknowledge the role of classism and privilege in these averages. If you’re navigating your wedding planning without family contributions or a financial cushion, know that you’re not alone—and your wedding can still be beautiful and deeply meaningful.
👉 Read more on how class, privilege, and generational wealth influence wedding culture
Gen Z vs. Millennials: Budget Priorities Differ
- Gen Z average: $27,000
- Millennial average: $38,000
Younger couples are often more open to non-traditional venues, DIY elements, or smaller guest counts. Flexibility can be your budget’s best friend.
Planning Timelines & Flexibility Make a Difference
Starting early allows couples to lock in pricing, avoid rush fees, and make mindful tradeoffs. It’s also smart to build in a 5% buffer for unexpected costs.
Bottom Line: Use the Data As a Tool, Not a Template
The average wedding doesn’t have to be your wedding. These numbers are meant to inform, not intimidate. The best wedding is one that feels like you, aligns with your values, and supports your long-term financial goals.
At The Budget Savvy Bride, we’re here to help you stay grounded, empowered, and excited as you plan your day—your way.
Stay savvy!
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